Beiträge vom January, 2010

Anne Weighs In

Friday, 29. January 2010 11:08

Hello, all.

I continue to be moved and excited by the growing community of women to whom silence has spoken. Each time I read a post, each time I see a different country or state mentioned, I envision this lovely tapestry of silence being created in the world. Because of that, we are not only being personally transformed, but are agents of transformation.

I will be thinking of you all on Sunday. And on Monday as I continue my personal practice. Blessing.

 Anne

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Monday, 25. January 2010 8:25

As this new year starts, we are happy to begin the pulse of silence this coming Sunday, the 31st. We look forward to hearing of your experience, however glorious or challenging.  Barbara Cecil and Dorian Baroni (site administrators)

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… from Hawaii

Monday, 25. January 2010 8:24

 I am having my silent day this Sunday instead of next as next Sunday is going to have a bunch of people I’m only seeing for that day. This is my best quiet day yet. No other humans, one dog, no cars, no TV, no clothes most of the day. I am feeling sooo blessed.  L.


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The Devil Loves Cell Phones – a Newsweek article that Peri has read

Thursday, 21. January 2010 9:42

The Devil Loves Cell Phones

Silence isn’t just golden—it’s heavenly.  By Julia Baird | NEWSWEEK  Published Oct 22, 2009   From issue dated Nov 2, 2009

It’s not hard to imagine hell as a place that is very, very noisy. In The Screwtape Letters, C. S. Lewis’s Devil detests music and silence. Hell, he crowed, was filled with furious noise: “the audible expression of all that is exultant, ruthless and virile…We will make the whole universe a noise…We have already made great strides in this direction as regards the Earth. The melodies and silences of Heaven will be shouted down in the end.”

In the Middle Ages, Christian scholars believed that Satan did not want human beings to be alone with God, or with each other, fully alert and listening. This is why British author Sara Maitland believes the mobile phone is a “major breakthrough for the powers of hell.” Maitland is more conscious of noise than most—she spent more than a decade pursuing silence like a hunter its prey. She writes in A Book of Silence, just published in the U.S., how she traveled to the desert, the hills, and the remote Scottish Highlands because she wanted to discover what silence truly was, and immerse herself in it. “I am convinced that as a whole society we are losing something precious in our increasingly silence-avoiding culture,” she writes, “and that somehow, whatever this silence might be, it needs holding, nourishing and unpacking.”

After spending 40 days in an isolated house on a windy moor, Maitland found silence did several things: her physical sensations were heightened (she was overwhelmed by the deliciousness of porridge, heard different notes in the wind, was more sensitive to temperature, and emotional); she became what she calls “disinhibited” (a Jungian notion that once alone, you are free to do what you want—picking your nose while eating, stripping your clothes off, abandoning grooming, washing once a week); she heard voices (a young girl, then a male choir singing in Latin, which she thinks may have been the wind); experienced great happiness; felt connected with the cosmos; was exhilarated by the risk and peril in what she was doing; and discovered a fierce joy, or bliss.

It is a strikingly refreshing book to read, in the midst of the clamor and din, ever-mounting distraction, yelling TV pundits, solipsistic tweet-ing, and flash-card sentiment of our Internet age. It made me realize what a profound longing many of us have for silence, how hard it is to find, and how easily we forget how much we need it. Most snatch it in small grabs—hot baths, long runs, lap swimming, bike rides. Maitland rails against the idea of silence as void, absence, and lack—something that we must rush to fill—insisting it is positive and nurturing, and something more profound that must be actively sought. (When silence is imposed, of course, it is something entirely different.)

What’s interesting about silence is not just the extremism, often merging on madness, of those who can claim to have lived silently: the Arctic explorer, the deep-sea diver, the sailor, the hermit, the ascetic, the nun. What is also important is what the rest of us can wring from the more mundane moments of stillness. We can’t all skip around nude through the Scottish bracken, or inhabit caves in Tibetan mountains, but we can experience silence in ways so potent they become addictive: the magical quiet of swimming under the sea; the uninterrupted hours after midnight; the sweet intimacy between a mother and her baby, being nursed in the wee hours; the breathless stillness after excellent sex; the hush of awe while gazing at a proud, ancient mountain, a huge rock glowing red in the desert, or someone soaring down a 20-foot wave. Even if it is not pure silence, it can be enough. We may not all have visions of a spinning, shining, silent God as Maitland does, but, as our thoughts are stripped back and stilled, we might sense the mystery of something greater than ourselves.

We often talk about distraction, and the banality of a culture that seems to smother deep thought or time-sucking contemplation—we tweet sneezes, we blink and record it for our friends, we sprint to be the first to speak. The anonymity of the Internet has been replaced by hyper-identity; the idea of shutting up and staring at a rock, piles of sand, or blinking stars for hours, if not weeks, seems profoundly countercultural.

I know, it sounds like the lament of the Luddite. But if generations of mystics and seekers have insisted that there’s something that connects silence with the sublime, you have to wonder what we are distracting ourselves from—and who we could be if, every now and then, we paused.

Find this article at http://www.newsweek.com/id/219010

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from Jo in Arizona

Tuesday, 19. January 2010 13:44

Thank you for the beautiful book and for the invitation to join your Day of Silence movement.

I’ve just started to dip into the book and love the feel of it.  That you all have started off with such a generous offering is very auspicious and draws me into the collective depth of your commitment,  the “depths of devotion” that I think I told you I’ve been exploring.

I do know that when the women of Ashland Institute feel the impetus to begin a practice, the practice is endowed with the heartfulness and the cosmic connections that will bring it into an unfathomable evolutionary trajectory.

As to the actual practice of silence on a monthly basis, I will need to allow that tidal energy to come in on its own timing and in its own way.  I can’t just say ‘yes’ off the top of my responsiveness, much as I would love to be in it with you right now. The seed has been sown and we’ll watch for the germination.

I love you and all that you do so very very much. Forever,  Jo

 

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from Sarah in the UK

Tuesday, 19. January 2010 13:36

From the UK…..In the early hours of this morning I started to read “Listening Below the Noise” and found myself quickly drawn into its pages. I know it is a read I will enjoy and return to. Thank you so much for thinking of me and for the gift of the book.

I am turning over inside the words of your letter to feel into what my response will be. It is wonderful that you are anchoring the practice of the day of Silence on the last Sunday of each month and encouraging other women to do so. For me there is such a strong link between funding oneself from the Silence and having one’s creative juices flow….

With love and blessings  Sarah

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from Kathy

Tuesday, 19. January 2010 13:28

I wanted to let you know that I have for the 1st time participated in the Sunday of Silence on Dec. 27th. I am so very thankful for the book that was sent….. The experience reading it has been one of the most delightful and engaging reads I have had in many moons. I feel folded into a really great chocolate chip cookie dough….! and so many other thoughts too.

So many thoughts, actually, that I was wondering if there is any dialogue (even if anonymous) happening via email /blog… or ?.. with this group of silent women? I have appreciated the light and organic nature of this invitation, and I realize that perhaps nothing ‘formal’ or more in form , would come of it. The fullness and depth that it is generating is lovely… and maybe this is enough.

 Thank you so much, again. Cheers to you and all in the New Year!  Kathy

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a forward from Beth in South Africa

Tuesday, 19. January 2010 13:19

Choose silence, and love is apparent – by Gangaji

 When we choose silence, we choose to give up the reasons not to love, which are the reasons for going to war, or continuing war, or separating, or being a victim, or being right. In a moment of silence, in a moment of no thought, no mind, we choose to give those up. This is what my teacher invited me to.

 Just choose silence. Don’t even choose love. Choose silence, and love is apparent. If we choose love we already have an idea of what love is.

 But if you choose silence, that is the end of ideas. You are willing to have no idea, to see what is present when there is no idea, past, present, future. No idea of love, no idea of truth, no idea of you, no idea of me. Love is apparent.

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Welcome! See posts and comment below

Tuesday, 19. January 2010 0:00

This invitation is for women who resonate with the practice of silence to join us in spending the last Sunday of each month in silence. Each person will organize these days in the ways that fit for her. The distribution of our time zones will form a wave of silence and connection round the world, and for each one a personal root into a universal source of inspiration.

This blog is for those who wish to describe their experience and ask questions, so we can learn from each other and support the richness of the practice.  A full explanation of the practice and intent is also listed as “The Invitation” under Pages. This blog is hosted by The Ashland Institute http://www.ashlandinstitute.org.

Below is a video of author Anne LeClaire speaking about her experience of silence, at an Ashland Institute retreat for women called Coming Into Your Own www.ciyowomensretreat.comIn her video Anne speaks of practicing on two Mondays  per month for the past 17 years.  She will also be joining us on our Sundays.

If you have questions about how to join us, please email the site administrator at: dorian.baroni@gmail.com

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from Barbara in Germany

Sunday, 3. January 2010 10:34

Thank you for the invitation to practice a day of silence each month and yes I want you to know that I am joining you.

I started with the sunday at the end of november. It was a very powerful day – a journey leading me from loneliness to connectedness. I had the possibility to retreat and meditate during this day and towards the evening I felt more and more connected with all the women who joined and beyond. A vibrant field of energy was very tangible.

 Very different was the experience of the second silent day in december. I had to work so I did whatever was possible to focus on silence and connectedness and even though I had not reached the same depth as before it was good as well – seeing all the expectations around (how things have to be to be good and successful).

 I feel it will be an adventurous experiment and I am thankful to be part of it. 

With warm regards, Barbara 

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